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Why Child Meltdowns Keep Happening — and the Skills That Actually Reduce Them

January 2026 Shelly Swift BCBA Child meltdowns often keep happening because the child is reaching overwhelm before they have an […]

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What to Teach Instead of Hitting or Aggression

January 2026 Shelly Swift, BCBA Introduction: Hitting Is a Skill Gap, Not a Character Flaw If your child hits, kicks,

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How to Use EFT Tapping for Kids’ Big Emotions (Instead of Yelling)

December 2025 Shelly Swift BCBA If you’re trying to stop yelling but don’t know what to do instead, you’re not

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Why Repair Alone Doesn’t Stop Repeat Behavior (And What Actually Helps)

December 2025 Shelly Swift BCBA What Repair Does — and What It Doesn’t Do You lost your cool.You raised your

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After-School Meltdowns: Why They Happen and What Helps

December 2025 Shelly Swift, BCBA After-school meltdowns often happen because children arrive home tired, hungry, overstimulated, and mentally drained after

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Why Kids Misbehave: Understanding the 4 Functions of Behavior

December 2025 • By Shelly Swift, BCBA Kids often “misbehave” because their behavior is helping them get something, avoid something,

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5 Ways to Use Daily Affirmations to Support Your Child (and Yourself)

Why Daily Affirmations Help Kids Build Confidence and Emotional Strength By Shelly Swift, BCBA  If your child is struggling with

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How to Teach Emotional Regulation Without Punishment

December 2025 • By Shelly Swift, BCBA  You can teach emotional regulation without punishment by helping children notice emotions earlier,

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